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For the bystanders
  • Bullying isn't cool.
  • Don't give bullies applause or praise.
  • Watching and laughing makes you an accomplice.
  • Don't tolerate it.
  • Challenge bullies.
  • Stand between the victim and the bully - you’re a hero if you do.
  • At least say something, like "Grow up!" "That’s not on."
  • Give a derisive head shake.
  • Give your support and sympathy to the victim.
  • It's okay to report bullying.

"Listen, mate, if you're going to carry on like that I'm straight down to the office to report you so back off." It's not narking: you're helping the bully and the bullied.